Double 'A'gent

How did you enter the escorting profession?  I had a new love. She was a high-class call girl as was revealed by a male friend who also fancied me. Instead of destroying my relationship he had unknowingly directed me towards my career. After we all enjoyed a threesome, I asked my girlfriend every possible question about the escort industry. Following her advice, I [entered the industry] and became an instant success.

You are at the higher end of the profession. How did you get there and what did it take?  The high-end escort profession is the cruelest, toughest and most honest industry you can be involved in. To be here you must make enormous sacrifices. Physical attributes will only take you so far. You must be everyone's perfect partner. To achieve this I read constantly about relationships, sex, business and my favourite subjects: spirituality and psychology.

What do your clients look for most from your services?  A sophisticated sexual experience.

Can you describe the calibre of your clients?  My clients are mostly professional people, high achievers like myself. They include generals, priests, entrepreneurs, politicians, barristers and prominent motion picture stars. My exclusivity allows me to develop personal and intimate relationships.

You are paid well for a service well performed (we hear). How did you perfect your technique?  Practice. I am a born perfectionist.

Is this more than just the fine art of lovemaking?  Tattooed on my back are the words "Grace", "Faith" and "Love". Applying these concepts to the art of lovemaking is the ‘more' factor my clients experience.

You work with couples. Do you find you connect them together, or is it more about their desire to see a third person pleasure their partner?  I love working with couples. They're generally the most liberated people. When they play, they play together. That to me is what a truthful relationship should be - honest and trusting. For many, the thought of watching their partner performing sexually with a stranger is a huge turn on. I make sure everyone's included in the physical fun at some stage.

What are some of the challenges you face in this profession?  It's important that clients understand what relationship types you're offering. My job is to be the perfect partner and sometimes that can be confusing for the client. It's possible they may slip into the fantasy of holding a deeper form of relationship than that of client-escort. When a client shows signs of such infatuation, I immediately dismiss the client altogether or temporarily withdraw contact.

What is the best paid experience you have encountered?  When I was presented with a small velvet case that contained a key with Aalex engraved on a silver tag. It was the key to a brand new Porsche 911!

What do you say to those who look down upon professionals in the industry?  I can appreciate that some may have difficulty understanding our industry. Perhaps they have preconceived ideas, some of which may even be true. As an escort I know that my profession improves people's lives. I have been fortunate to be associated with the industry's finest men and women who have inspired me to be the very best human I can possibly be. Since our industry was legalised there has been considerable positive change.

Are your friends and family supportive of your career?  If your friends, family and partners really know what love is, they'll support you throughout your entire life in any circumstances ruling out activities or actions that may bring physical harm to others.

Read an exclusive excerpt from Aalex's upcoming autobiography

Sign up to our Queer Sydney newsletter